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Divorce-seeking wife beats husband to pulp in Lagos

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A 39-year-old man, Niyi Adeyemo, has accused his wife, Jumoke Bamgbola, 38, of beating him to a pulp during a disagreement at their residence on Love-All Street, Ikosi-Ketu, Lagos State.

Adeyemo, who was said to be suffering from arthritis, was admitted to a hospital after the alleged assault which happened on Monday.

PUNCH Metro gathered that the marriage, which was consummated in 2018, hit the rocks in 2019.

Adeyemo, who spoke to our correspondent from a hospital bed where he was receiving treatment, said his marriage crashed after his mother visited their home and his wife objected to it because she did not like his family members visiting him.

This, he claimed, led to their separation.

He said his wife’s demand for a divorce became intense when she returned from Dubai, United Arab Emirates, in January 2022.

He said, “Bamgbola stormed my house on May 30, 2022, around 11am and asked me why I had not been picking her lawyer’s phone calls. I refused to respond and she said that I must talk to her because she came prepared for me.

“I tried walking away, but she dragged me back and tore my native attire specially sewn for my late mum’s burial and became violent.

“She started throwing punches at me all over my body, especially on my legs because she is aware of my health condition. She tossed me around the house and kept saying that she would make sure I was admitted to a hospital.

“She also dragged my private parts and bit my hands as I tried to prevent her from biting my manhood. I deliberately stopped myself from hitting her like I was advised. So, I telephoned her dad and put it on phone speaker; her dad called out her name, but she refused to respond or listen to him.

“Her dad asked me to leave the house, but I couldn’t, as she locked my neck with my torn clothes and said that I must give her a divorce. I passed out as a result of the severe pain and later found myself in a hospital.

“My wife’s demand for a divorce became intense when she arrived from Dubai early this year. While she was in Dubai, we resolved our differences through video calls and made plans to relocate from where I stayed. But she suddenly changed and began comparing me with another man she met over there.

“She came back in January 2022 and requested to lodge at a hotel in the Lekki area of Lagos so as to self isolate because of Covid-19 to avoid virus infection on our son. Apparently, she came back to Nigeria with a boyfriend with whom she had arranged to spend the night in the hotel.

“I telephoned her several times, but she refused to receive my calls and when I used other people’s mobile phones to call, she cut off the calls after she heard my voice.

“She once telephoned me and said that only our child bound us together and I would be powerless after she took away our child. She later threatened to kill me with her bare hands if I didn’t give her a divorce because her boyfriend said that he could not marry someone who was married with a child.

“The matter has been reported at the Ketu Police Station, but she is yet to be arrested as she has gone into hiding.”

Reacting, Bamgbola said she filed for a divorce and her husband was served, but he refused to honour the court invite.

She said, “I went to the court on Monday to see the lawyer and he complained that my husband had not been picking up his calls or from my mum as well and I telephoned him, but he kept pleading with me that he did not want a divorce and that he had been suffering from anger disorder.

“He admitted that he allowed a third party in our marriage and that he was sorry. The lawyer told me that I had to see my husband and make him understand what I wanted because of our only child.

“So, I went to his place and met another lady with him in the kitchen. I asked for us to talk and asked why he refused to receive the lawyer’s calls and why he was telling people that he gave me N1.5m to rent an apartment, but he denied it.

“I actually visited to inform him that the court had fixed June 28, 2022, for our divorce case and discuss the matter with him if we could settle the dispute amicably. He usually beat me, but I always tried not to hit him back because he is a sickle cell patient.

“Apparently, it resulted in a fight, as I was also admitted to a hospital at the Ijoko area because I had a swollen face and bruises all over my body and could hardly talk. I visited the same Ketu Police Station to report a missing Samsung flip Z3 phone that I lost in his house and paid N2,000 at the station for the report.

“Ketu Police Station later reached out to me yesterday (Tuesday) that my husband filed a case of assault against me and I replied that I would visit the station on Sunday when I get better.”

The state Police Public Relations Officer, Benjamin Hundeyin, promised to call back our correspondent after confirming the incident.

He had yet to do so as of press time.

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Tributes as NAN Editor Offor Bids Farewell to Educationist Mother

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Chinenye Offor, a multimedia editor with the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN), has buried her mother, Lady Eunice Chintua Offor, an educationist and entrepreneur who died aged 72.

The burial service was held at St. Mary’s Anglican Church, Ohokobe/Umuohu Ndume Ibeku, Umuahia North LGA, Abia State. 

The funeral programme started with a service of songs by the Knights and Ladies (KSC), family and friends who gathered at her residence, and later a Christian wake on Sept. 3.

The deceased was laid to rest on Friday, Sept. 4, 2026, at her country home in Umuohu Ndume Ibeku, Umuahia.

The funeral service was officiated by the Anglican Communion Bishop Umuahia Diocese, His Lordship, Rt. Rev. Goeffery Ibeabuchi, and attracted many dignitaries, including government officials.

Rev. Canon Adolphous Baba, who preached at the funeral service, said the greatest decision one can make is to make peace and maintain a good relationship with God while alive, adding that death was a reminder that life is short.

He described the late Lady Eunice Offor as a woman who feared and loved God, noting that her service to God and humanity was worthy of emulation.

According to him, death is inevitable, but when a saint dies like Lady Offor, “it’s a plus to heaven because heaven gained a soul.”

Baba, therefore, enjoined people to live a life worthy of emulation, adding that it was the best legacy to leave behind.

The deceased’s first child /daughter, Nnenna Offor, described her as a woman with many sides — a home builder, lover of God and humanity, prayer warrior, peace maker, courageous, bold and a counsellor.

She added that Lady Offor was a philanthropist, a giver, and a compassionate person with a love that transcended far above the realm.

According to her, Lady Offor was her first teacher. She recounted how she taught her how to cook at age 12.

She added that she also taught her kindness, how to pray, have faith in God, to love without restrictions, and to always stand on the side of truth.

Also speaking, Chinenye Offor of NAN described her late mum as a virtuous woman, a pace setter, goal getter, and a woman per excellence.

She said her mum was her first teacher and attributed her resilience, straightforwardness, and strong-willed attitude to the virtues her mum instilled in her.

She recounted how her late mum always encouraged her and ensured that she became independent, saying that “an independent woman is a valued currency.”

“My mum taught me how to save, do business, and invest, telling me that nothing is small when it comes to starting a business or buying stocks and shares.

“I remember when I visited Abuja for the first time, in 2000 it was courtesy of my mum. She used 100 dollars to register for a conference , International Association for Volunteer Effort (IAVE)  my older sister and I attended.

“When I wanted to travel to the US in 2015, I had no money. She volunteered to pay for my fare and other expenses.

“My mum lived a life worthy of emulation, and emulating her lifestyle in all ramifications was the first certificate I obtained, and that certificate has shaped the exceptional woman I have become.

“Her passing is painful, but my assurance is that she has gone to be with the Lord because heaven gained a soul,” she said.

In the same vein, her first son, Mr. Chigozie Offor described his mum as a woman full of empathy and a lover of God who impacted many lives throughout her lifetime.

He added that his mother taught him how to pray, be courageous, and always stand for the truth.

According to him, no matter how busy the mother was, she made out time for her children, offering wise words and prayers.

“I will miss my mum’s prayers, calls, and words of encouragement. She always worked tirelessly to make sure each and every one of us was safe, healthy, and thriving.

“Though you are no longer with us, your presence is still felt every day. Your laughter, wisdom, and love are woven into my life, echoing in my thoughts and actions.

“In my actions, I carry forward your legacy, honouring the lessons you taught me and striving to live in a way that would make you proud,” he added.

Also, Mr. Piri Diepiri, son-in-law to the deceased, said he was blessed to have Mama as his mother-in-law, adding that she was not just a mother-in-law, but he saw her as his real mother.

According to him, “My wife and I learnt teachable life lessons from Mama, who called and treated me as her son. From her, we learnt several secrets that have made our marriage exemplary and anchored on God’s grace and foundation.

“Mama taught us to avoid pitfalls associated with exposing our marriage to third parties’ influence. Consequently, our two families are so closely knit, and in my wife, I see Mama’s legacy of a home builder, a peace maker, a God-sent, and a gifted counsellor.

“From Mama, we also picked up a key lesson in parenting — that is to always correct our children with love and pray for them at all times.

“My wife is inconsolable that her best friend and confidant has gone, but we take comfort that Mama lived and died in Christ Jesus.

“A devoted, peaceful, and God-fearing servant of the Most High. Mama lived a fulfilled life and has joined her beloved husband in the bosom of the Lord,” he stated.

Also, Chief M. Adebayo, another son-in-law, said Lady Offor was not a mother-in-law to him but a mother, as she never saw him as a son-in-law but called him “my son” adding that anytime she had the opportunity to introduce him to anyone its always  meet my son

He added that even in far away overseas where he resides, Mama would always ensure she called him on every first day of the month to offer prayers, not minding the difference in time zones.

According to him, Mama’s lifestyle of sacrifice, love, kindness, and hard work were attributes she had embedded in his wife.

“It’s really hard for me, I am heartbroken because Mama and I had plans this year that didn’t come to fruition. I will miss Mama’s kindness, generosity, and benevolence.

“I will miss her presence, prayers, and the local delicacies she prepared for me whenever I am in Nigeria, like Ukazi soup and Ugba served with stockfish.

“My consolation is that she lived a good life and left a lasting legacy that has transcended into her children and beyond,” he added.

Lady Offor was born in January 1954 to the late Mr and Mrs Nzewata Onyenweama of Ohokobe Ndume in Umuahia North. She died on May 18, 2026, at the age of 72.

Lady Offor was a devoted member of the Order of Knights and Ladies of St. Christopher, Umuahia Diocese. She also served as a Lay Reader in the church.

She was known for her generosity, compassion, and commitment to the vulnerable, particularly women, the elderly, and widows.

She was married to the late Sir Jonah Offor, KSC, of Umuohu Ndume Ibeku.

She is survived by eight children, 12 grandchildren, sons-in-law, a daughter-in-law, siblings, and other relatives.

As a teacher, Lady Offor devoted her professional life to educating and mentoring young people.

She was passionate about women empowerment and encouraged them to pursue self-reliance.

The deceased will be remembered for her dedication to education, entrepreneurship, Christian service, and support for vulnerable people, particularly the elderly, widows, and women.

Her life was defined by service to God and humanity, and she would be greatly missed by her family, friends, and community.

The Editor, on behalf of her family, has expressed appreciation to friends and well-wishers who came from far and near to join them in paying their final respects to the deceased during the funeral.

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