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Ugwuanyi’s Relationship Management Savvy and the Gains Therefrom

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By Reuben Onyishi (Ugoachataberu)

 

As it is written in the holy book, go wisdom is better than weapons of warfare. Certain battles in life are avoidable only if men have wisdom. The Almighty God was minded to give King Solomon rest from battles, unlike King David, his father, who, all his life, fought battles up and down the hills and caves. His hands were soiled with blood so much that when he purposed to build a house for God, the Almighty objected to that and would rather his son did build His temple. So when Solomon asked for wisdom, he asked according to the will of God; he asked and received because he did not ask amiss. God granted him unprecedented wisdom and so he could manage relationships effectively with every diplomatic savvy without detracting from the dignity of the exalted office he occupied.

 

Many of the tyrants that did people the governance of the world were men who lacked the wisdom of governance embedded in interpersonal skills and relationship management abilities. Wisdom is the ability to solve a problem without creating another problem in the process. Tyrants seek to protect their positions arbitrarily. They are cowardly men who lack the competence and the art of wearing the toga of power. Tyrants undress power naked and have it rampage and gallop uncontrollably along the streets of the country with no loincloth of peace and modesty around its rude waste, as Achebe would say. Tyrants know not how to negotiate power across the bends of governance and so end up crashing it into the rueful heaps of indiscretion. They are haughty and so wear the anklets of power up to their knees. They provoke the vindictiveness of the gods on account of their hubris- excessive mortal pride – and so undo themselves in no time.

 

Some leaders might not have set out for the low they found themselves, for while taking their haughty steps to the Olympian height without the needed circumspection, they stagger down the lugubrious stairs into the lowly cesspit. By so doing they confirm V. S. Naipaul’s prelude to his ‘A Bend in the River’ that the world is such a place. Men who are nothing, who have made themselves nothing, have no place in it. Indeed tyrants have no place in the world besides the lowly cesspit into which they often descend.

 

If wisdom was a gift, it is denied leadership at all levels in Nigeria and this has a historical dimension. Nigeria as a country has had a checkered history full of crises. We have had leaders who lacked relationship and people management skills, men who ordinarily would have had no business with governance. Many such leaders across all facets of the land ended up creating more problems for themselves and for the people. Perhaps we are yet to be developed for want of wise leadership. We have yet at the national level to encounter the J F Kenedies and the Lincolns of American fame in Nigeria.

 

This history bereft of people management savvy has entrenched itself a tradition, a stereotype of the sort, so much that the people suffer shock at a manifestation of such unknown skills in their governance. Such shock is capable of engendering some level of misinterpretation on the part of the people who had not encountered such all their lives. What exactly is what plays out in Enugu State since the coming to power of His Excellency, Rt. Hon. Ifeanyi Ugwuanyi. Ugwuanyi’s relationship management savvy has remained as enigmatic as it amazes the learned and confounds the simple. No one has yet to come to terms with it.

 

Ifeanyi Ugwuanyi is like the soldier ants and the pumpkin leaves that know no boundaries. Ugwuanyi is the pathway that has no enemies as he constantly defies the saying that nobody can please everybody. In truth and practice, Ugwuanyi has shown how possible it can be to please everybody. And this is one of the assets of his government.

 

Since 2015 when Ugwuanyi came to power to date, Enugu State has seen rest; rest from political upheavals; rest from security challenges; rest from the opposition; rest from power tussles; rest from the executive-legislature crisis, and all the ills associated with poor interpersonal skills and lack of wisdom.

 

Besides wisdom, it takes humility to effectively manage relationships. Many of the political crises that come to governance are oftentimes orchestrated by pride and arrogant showmanship. Chief Jim Nwobodo, the former Governor of the old Anambra State, recently attested to Ifeanyi Ugwuanyi’s humility as unprecedented.

 

Ugwuanyi’s many victories had come to him naturally as leaves to a tree. He is loved by the people for identifying with them at all times. Some paid vain detractors had thought to ridicule him with his identifying with the people in celebration and mourning, something they had thought unbecoming of his high office, without their knowing that Ugwuanyi has uncommon relationship abilities that erase the barriers between the high and the low. Little wonder the door of Lion Building is open to all.

 

Opposition politics in Enugu State is dead. It is dead because there is absolutely no need for that. The administration of Ifeanyi Ugwuanyi has excellent people-oriented policies that are judiciously being implemented. Opposition thrives where the government is not doing well. The government of Ugwuanyi is doing exceptionally well on all fours and so there is no need for any opposition. Ugwuanyi also maintains sound relationships with the APC led federal government despite his being in the opposition party, the PDP. It takes a great deal of relationship management skills to sail through the thorns of opposition at the center and at the state level. This is something that was absent in previous administrations of the state.

 

Maintaining a good relationship with the legislature is not a dance done with snuff in the palm. We had in the past seen cases of the split legislature for and against the governor. We have seen the implications of that as it affects governance in the state. In some of the cases, two speakers emerged. Accusations and recriminations, impeachment, and votes of confidence fly the sky and fan the people cold. But this is completely absent in Ugwuanyi’s administration. His Excellency has an exceptional cordial relationship with the legislature. This cordial relationship has wrought positive impacts on the development and governance of Enugu State.

 

When the ways of a man please God, he makes even his enemies be at peace with him. In Enugu State, Ugwuanyi is loved by the people. He has the mien; he has the aura; Ugwuanyi has the charisma. Notorious criminals have kept away from Enugu State, avoiding crimes as one would a hot iron.  They on their own know that righteousness is on the throne and so they had better give peace a chance or be worse off for any negating criminal action.

 

Many politicians of Enugu State extraction who went on political asylum have returned home. Old politicians who could not find their feet politically have now been integrated into the scheme of things irrespective of party affiliations.

 

Youths who had before now complained about their exclusion in political appointments in the state are now appointed to positions in Ugwuanyi’s administration as commissioners, SPAs, SSAs, SAs, and TAs. The elderly are happy; the youth are glad that true governance has come to Enugu State through Dr. Ugwuanyi.

 

Ugwuanyi’s Midas touch of relationship savvy also finds expression across the divides of gender consideration. Both genders are equitably represented in his government. Ugwuanyi has been able to manage the gender question in the state that there are no ayes and nays to that effect.

 

At the local government level, the chairmen of the 17 local governments in the state are not left out. Ugwuanyi relates with them so effectively that there has not been any issue whatsoever with the councils. Ugwuanyi’s interpersonal skills have also rubbed off on the chairmen to the extent that they too have developed cordial relationships with their councilors. There has been no case of impeachment of any chairman or leader of the house in any of the councils under Governor Ugwuanyi’s watch.

 

At the party level in the state, inter-party relationships have been leveraged upon, leading to the adoption of Ugwuanyi by the other political parties as their joint candidate during the governoship election. Within the PDP in Enugu State, Ugwuanyi as the leader of the party has caused the party to relate like a family. Recently, the party had its state congress and there was no issue at all. The congress was done in an orderly and peaceful manner devoid of any rancor or acrimonious altercation.

 

No man can do all this if he lacks wisdom; if he lacks excellent interpersonal relationship management skills. These skills do not just occur as leaves to a tree; they grow as boughs in the plant of humility and wisdom. Ifeanyi Ugwuanyi is the plant and Enugu State enjoys the good fruit it bears

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Daughters of Dr. Charles Ononiwu, Chiamanda and Chiamaka, Launch Debut Books to Uplift Hearts Facing Life’s Struggles

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Joel Ajayi

At just 18 and 20 years old, Chiamanda and Chiamaka Ononiwu — daughters of renowned Nigerian surgeon Dr. Charles Ononiwu — have achieved a remarkable milestone with the release of their debut inspirational books, Do Not Be Afraid and Waterfalls.

Their literary journey began six years ago, during the height of the global COVID-19 pandemic. While the world was engulfed in fear and uncertainty, the then 13- and 15-year-old sisters turned inward, using writing as an outlet to process their emotions, express their faith, and reach out to others with messages of hope and resilience.

 What began as a quiet act of creativity blossomed into two powerful books that now serve as beacons of light for readers navigating life’s storms.

Eighteen-year-old Chiamanda Ononiwu is the author of Do Not Be Afraid. A passionate Electrical Engineering student , she is also a proud alumna of Intellichild TLC and Valedictorian of Great Blessings School, Class of 2022. 

In her book, she addresses the emotional challenges many young people face and draws from her personal faith to offer guidance and encouragement.

Her elder sister, Chiamaka Ononiwu, 20, is a final-year medical student at Babcock University in Nigeria. She penned Waterfalls, a heartfelt and deeply spiritual work she describes as divinely inspired. Chiamaka views her writing as a calling — a mission to uplift souls and bring hope to those struggling with life’s challenges.

“Personally, I would say it all started with the idea of inclusion, inspired by real human experiences,” Chiamaka shared. “We’ve had conversations with people who’ve gone through difficult situations — including issues and those stories helped shape what I write today.”

She added, “It’s all about encouraging people to face life with faith. We began this journey during a dark time in the world, and I felt called to create something that could offer comfort and hope — not just locally, but globally.”

The official book launch and signing ceremony took place on Wednesday in Abuja, Nigeria’s capital, and was attended by family, friends, colleagues, and well-wishers. It was a celebration of creativity, faith, and youthful brilliance, as the sisters presented their work to an inspired audience.

Speaking at the event, Chiamaka emphasized the core message of her book: “Waterfalls reminds readers that God is always watching over His people. He doesn’t bring fear — He brings peace, hope, and love. I want readers to find comfort and assurance in that truth.”

For Chiamanda, her book is a message to young people who may feel overwhelmed by life’s pressures: “Do Not Be Afraid is especially for youth navigating difficult times. No matter how hard life gets, you can always find strength and direction in God’s word.”

Writing came naturally to both sisters. Chiamaka recalled, “Even as a child, I loved writing short stories for my siblings. When the opportunity came to publish, I knew it was time to share my message with a wider audience.”

Despite their demanding academic paths, both young women balanced their studies with writing through perseverance and faith.

Chiamanda and Chiamaka are united by a shared dream — to inspire people across the world with their writing.

Chiamaka expressed Further;  “Our biggest hope is that these books will reach people who need to know that God is real, that He’s always with them, and that through Him, anything is possible,” Chiamaka said.

With Do Not Be Afraid and Waterfalls, the Ononiwu sisters have not only created literary works — they’ve created lifelines. Their voices, grounded in faith and driven by purpose, remind readers everywhere that even in the darkest moments, God’s light never fades.

Their father, Dr. Charles Ononiwu — a distinguished surgeon and deeply devoted parent — also spoke at the event, sharing the journey from his perspective.

“For me, my number one priority has always been to care for children — not just medically, but also by encouraging them academically and in the basics of life,” he said.

He recounted a moving moment with Chiamanda, who approached him with the idea of sharing her story publicly to inspire others.

“She came to me and said she wanted to talk to her peers, to share how she had been comforted, and to help them see that everything would be okay,” he recalled. “As a father, my role was to guide her. I support both of them, help activate their strengths, and provide direction.”

Dr. Ononiwu made the decision to fund the publication of their books himself, believing in the power of their message.

“I told them, ‘You have something the world needs. You can make an impact in the lives of others,’” he said. “I believe every child has a gift. It is our responsibility as parents not to dismiss them, but to help them discover and nurture their talents.”

He encouraged all parents to support their children’s creative pursuits, noting, “Every person has something special inside them — no one is without talent. It’s just a matter of looking inward, discovering that gift, and sharing it with the world.”

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